Friday, May 9, 2008

The Cubby Chronicles IV



Note: Kristin was admitted to Duke University Hospital the evening of Monday, May 5 2008 for leaking amniotic fluid. The following are updates, notes, & observations on hospital life.

I'm sitting here in our room typing this out on a laptop while Kristin is napping.  Thanks to our buddies Steph & Nate we have a MacBook for the weekend to post updates on the blog.  I think they're covertly trying to convert us over to the apple side of things but its helpful nonetheless (though I can't figure how to delete things forwards as opposed to backspacing).

The bottom line is we're still stable & looking good.  We've reached a couple of goals recently including the Cubby not sharing my mom's birthday (5/8--happy birthday mom!) & making it past the 4 days/96 hour mark since Kristin's water broke.  The best way for us to wrap our heads around this whole thing is to take it one step at a time & focus on what we think of as reachable milestones.  We don't really have anything specific for Saturday other than 'make it to the weekend' but that'll do for now.

Strange as it sounds we're adjusting pretty well to the routine of hospital life.  Some of you think that we'd be bored out of our minds by now but actually our days seem quite full even if they only are made up of small events.  The nurses come in every 4 hours, 3 meals are brought every day (& she gets to plan her next day's meals) and we always have some other obligation.  Yesterday it was having an echo cardiogram to make sure the Cubby's heart looked good (thankfully it did).  However, it was almost a 3 hour ordeal though Kristin got to go in a wheelchair & saw something other than the view from the bed.  

We hope to be comfortable here because we'd like to stay awhile.  We've received some questions regarding when Kristin might be allowed to leave the hospital but just to be clear we're essentially here until the baby arrives, one way or another.  That could be today, it could be in July and its just a waiting game.  What keeps us (& me especially) on edge is that labor could start at any moment.  A good friend of mine at work was in a similar situation recently & she told me the first week in the hospital is the hardest.  Its certainly been a roller coaster so far but we're not ready to get off yet.  So our intention is to make it through a few weeks but while that's the overall goal we try to focus on each day.  Thanks again for everyone's thoughts, prayers, & encouragement.....

Thursday, May 8, 2008

Thank you! and the background on our roller coaster ride...

We really cannot express how much we appreciate all the care and concern everyone has shown.  We're pretty sure we're not reaching everyone when we send out email updates, so we've decided to go to the even less personal option of posting to our blog.  It feels a little cold to do things this way, but we want to make sure that everyone that would like information can access it.  Thanks so much for all the calls and emails, even if we can't reply or call you back, we really do appreciate hearing from you, so please feel free to keep calling and emailing. It means a lot to hear/read your messages.  What follows is my attempt to tell you about the roller coaster we've been on for the last week and a half....

Last Monday (April 28) my uterus was measuring too large at my monthly prenatal checkup, so my OB sent me to have an ultrasound to see if I had a huge baby (as Jeff said at the time - maybe the cubby is just the Hulk) or too much amniotic fluid or what was going on.  On Thursday, May 1, we had the ultrasound and learned that I do indeed have too much amniotic fluid (a condition known as polyhydramnios).  I was allowed to continue to work but told to rest when I got home (no cooking, cleaning, walking the dogs, etc).  I was told to call my doctor if I thought I felt contractions or if I thought my water broke.

On Monday, May 5, I had a feeling that perhaps I was leaking amniotic fluid.  I went to my regular OB that afternoon, and she confirmed that I was leaking fluid (meaning my water broke).  She sent me immediately to Duke University Hospital and told me that I could have the baby that night or several weeks from now.  When we got to Duke, they immediately gave me a steroid shot (to help the cubby develop - particularly his lungs), put me on magnesium (to inhibit labor and contractions), and started giving me antibiotics.  Over night I had the fun joy of getting a catheter and dealing with the effects of the magnesium.  I also had some contractions and it was really touch and go on going into labor.  Needless to say, Monday night was pretty difficult.
Mid-day Tuesday they took me off the magnesium.  I had a few more irregular contractions that afternoon.  But I made it to the second round of steroid shots that evening.  Apparently the two steroid shots are really a key to making sure the baby has the best chance if he is delivered prematurely.  We also had an ultrasound which showed that the cubby looks good (and we got some 3D pictures of him).  Even though I am leaking fluid, at Tuesday's ultrasound, I still had way too much fluid (even more than at last Thursday's ultrasound)  And I continued to get antibiotics.  The antibiotics are to fight off infection.  Apparently infection is the biggest concern right now and is what will most likely send me into labor.

On Wednesday, we made it to the 48 hour mark (48 hours after my water broke Monday morning) which is a real milestone as 50% of women who have premature rupture of the membranes (water breaking) will deliver within 48 hours.  The next big milestone is 2 weeks - 80% of women deliver within 2 weeks.

Right now, we're doing well.  I slept well last night with some mild abdominal cramping but nothing I couldn't sleep through (it seems as though as long as I can sleep through any pain/contractions the doctors don't care too much).  This morning the monitors (I go on every 20 minutes once a day) picked up some more low level contractions that I couldn't really feel (the same thing happened yesterday).  I also took a shower for the first time!  Woohoo!  After that we went down to pediatric cardiology for our echogram.  The attending OB wanted to do a more detailed ultrasound of the heart just to see if there is anything wrong (although the standard ultrasound wasn't picking up anything).  Anything they can detect now we'll help the neonatologists immensely when the cubby is born.  Anyway, the cardiologist thinks the cubby's heart looks good.  He might have a small-medium hole between his upper chambers but from other views the doctor said he couldn't see it.  The doctor said it is something that would probably close up after birth and/or be something we'd worry about a few weeks after he's born. The doctor also thought his heart looked a little stiff when it releases blood (something like that - we can't remember the exact terminology) which is probably from the pressure of the excess fluid.  But overall, he thought everything looked really good and those were very minor problems - if problems at all. 

I'm sure that I'm forgetting some things and may have to come back and update this with some more background information, but hopefully that is enough to bring people up to speed. 

The Cubby Chronicles III

Note: Kristin was admitted to Duke University Hospital the evening of Monday, May 5 2008 for leaking amniotic fluid. Before access to a full computer we sent out a few 'K Updates' via Gmail on her BlackBerry.  They have been copied here for easy access and posterity.

From: Jeff Walker <jeffrey.allan.walker@gmail.com>
Date: Wed, 7 May 2008 10:27:23 -0400
Subject: K update 2

Hi everyone, first off thanks so much for all your kind thoughts and
help.  We really appreciate them.  We've achieved our 1st 2 goals so
far: make it so K could take her 2 steroid shots and make it past 48
hours without delivery.

Essentially all the docs say is if you can make it past the 1st 48
hours you've got a shot at making it a week.  Once you've gone that
far you can make it multiple weeks.  Currently K is doing fine though
the  monitor is picking up low level contractions. However, she
doesn't really feel them and they could just as easily go away.
While we're a little scared we are just trying to stay positive and
we'll keep you as updated as we can.

Since so many of you asked we're at Duke University Hospital, room
5715.  Thanks again for all your support, love,

Jeff and Kristin

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The Cubby Chronicles II

Note: Kristin was admitted to Duke University Hospital the evening of Monday, May 5 2008 for leaking amniotic fluid. Before access to a full computer we sent out a few 'K Updates' via Gmail on her BlackBerry.  They have been copied here for easy access and posterity.

From: Jeff Walker <jeffrey.allan.walker@gmail.com>
Date: Tue, 6 May 2008 14:33:23 -0400
Subject: Fwd: K update

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Hey everyone! Sorry for the group e-mail but Kristin was admitted to
the hospital last night.  She was leaking amniotic fluid so her doctor
sent her over to Duke hospital.

As the forwarded message says it was a rough night but she and the
Cubby are doing good today.  They took her off the labor inhibitor
drugs and she's getting another round of steroid shots at 6.  The
bottom line is she could go into labor at any time but she could also
wait weeks (which is what we want).

For the detail-oriented she's not having any noticble contractions now
and she's only 2cm dialted.  We're right at 26 weeks along. We both
have our cell phones and we'll keep you updated.  Love,

Jeff and Kristin

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The Cubby Chronicles I

Note: Kristin was admitted to Duke University Hospital the evening of Monday, May 5 2008 for leaking amniotic fluid. Before access to a full computer we sent out a few 'K Updates' via Gmail on her BlackBerry.  They have been copied here for easy access and posterity.

---------- Forwarded message ----------
From: Jeff Walker <jeffrey.allan.walker@gmail.com>
Date: Tue, 6 May 2008 10:01:52 -0400
Subject: K update

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Hi everyone-just wanted to send out a quick Kristin update.  She had
some low level contractions last night around 3 but they subsided at
about 4:30.  She also had some catheter issues and back pain but
they've passed.  K's doing well now and doesn't have any pain.

We'll keep you updated, love,

Jeff and Kristin

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Wednesday, March 26, 2008

You Were Warned....

Well by now you may have heard we're having a boy this August. And if you're a regular reader you might also recall K had her second ultrasound and everything looks great. Of course the rub is, just because the little guy looks great from a developmental perspective doesn't necessarily mean he's the most photogenic baby out there.

I think the word used previously about the following pictures was "creepy." Now of course none of this is reflection on the little tyke himself, who I'm sure will be the cutest guy either of us have laid our eyes on. However it's an interesting look at how sonagrams can distort the baby depending on the depth of the picture. Ladies & gentleman, we're about to play a little "You Make The Call'"...



Okay, it's just a foot. Not too bad, maybe even kind of cute.....

So this is a straight on picture of the Cubby's face laying on his side. Well, the terms "alien" or "evil teddy bear" might spring to mind. But we're not finished yet....

Well all right, here we've got Mr. Cubby in the same position and the creepiness factor has gone up a few notches. I tend to look at the pic as a cross between a skull & the puppet from Saw.

Editor's Note: The actual link to a picture of the puppet from Saw was removed, as the editor found it entirely too disturbing to connect that to her baby. In the interest of freedom of the press, the editor has allowed the reference to stay, but if you must see a picture, you will have to google it yourself.

Monday, March 17, 2008

That's Mr. Cubby To You...


Ladies & gentleman the Cubby now has a gender. Today was the big day of our 2nd ultrasound & we found out that we're having a baby boy!!!! We, along with all the parents & relatives, are thrilled (& its safe to say that at least one may be down right ecstatic). So now my mom's getting her wish when she said that she hopes I have a kid just like me. Apparently I'm supposed to be due for some sort of karmic retribution (or at least a glass cover to protect our coffee table); we'll see what happens.....

The doc also said that everything is looking great so we're pretty excited. All of the organs, spine, etc... are developing nicely which is always good to hear. The only bummer on this end is we couldn't get a good profile picture of the little guy but we've got a few (slightly creepy) shots of him head-on that we'll probably post to the blog later. Apparently some people are doubting the creepiness factor. All we can say is wait & see.....